Recently there has been a lot of interesting articles regarding the increase of HIV cases throughout the world.
I was wondering, why is that so. Why do these men put themselves into such a situation? Is it that difficult to use a condom?? Sometimes, i really do wonder.
To me, it looks like many who have multiple partners, don't seem to care that there is an officially deadly sexually transmited disease going on. That it is necessary to put that nice little latex condom around their penis before they put their nice penis into someone else's hole. Why is it soooo difficult?? Can someone tell me?
I do not want to generalise anyone or anything. This concerns ALL OF US. It is not the fault of homosexuals, only. It is the fault of those, who do not want to use a condom during sex. That means, hetero-, bi- and homosexuals, men and/or women.
I have seen my gay friends being prepared and carrying condoms with them or even deny (!) sex if the other part didn't want to use condoms. I give them a big applause!
I have even seen lesbians, who do carry latex handgloves with them and put them on before having sex!! Even women do have safe sex. What's the big deal in protecting one's life before enjoying it fully?!
Having an open relationship is one's choice. Go have your fun, but please, protect yourself!
Maybe it's an ego thing with men, no? I don't know. I just question it. Or maybe it's because it doesn't give one the "right" feeling. You do not feel as much as without a condom... Well then... take the responsibility in your own hands and do the following:
Does it sound complicated?! NO!
It's YOUR life. It's OTHER'S life you are playing with. Don't be selfish. Think of others!
And if life is so worthless, as it does seem like then jump off the bridge and commit suicide. At least, it won't hurt anyone else, but yourself and your own family and friends. There are other people on this earth, who believe that life is worth a lot. Don't take it away from them.
Am i being very mean? Maybe. Maybe am just and simply telling the actual truth. A short reality check on a blog. If i am really wrong in saying all this, please leave me a comment. I needed to say it out loud, because i can't believe that there are still people being so irresponsible for their choices of not using a condom. I am not saying, it is wrong to not use a condom. What i want to say in this issue is:
I was wondering, why is that so. Why do these men put themselves into such a situation? Is it that difficult to use a condom?? Sometimes, i really do wonder.
To me, it looks like many who have multiple partners, don't seem to care that there is an officially deadly sexually transmited disease going on. That it is necessary to put that nice little latex condom around their penis before they put their nice penis into someone else's hole. Why is it soooo difficult?? Can someone tell me?
I do not want to generalise anyone or anything. This concerns ALL OF US. It is not the fault of homosexuals, only. It is the fault of those, who do not want to use a condom during sex. That means, hetero-, bi- and homosexuals, men and/or women.
I have seen my gay friends being prepared and carrying condoms with them or even deny (!) sex if the other part didn't want to use condoms. I give them a big applause!
I have even seen lesbians, who do carry latex handgloves with them and put them on before having sex!! Even women do have safe sex. What's the big deal in protecting one's life before enjoying it fully?!
Having an open relationship is one's choice. Go have your fun, but please, protect yourself!
Maybe it's an ego thing with men, no? I don't know. I just question it. Or maybe it's because it doesn't give one the "right" feeling. You do not feel as much as without a condom... Well then... take the responsibility in your own hands and do the following:
- have a check up. Go for a HIV test and if it does come out positive,
- do not blame it on others, but yourself and please,
- next time you are about to have a condom-free sex:
let your partner know that you are positive!!
Does it sound complicated?! NO!
It's YOUR life. It's OTHER'S life you are playing with. Don't be selfish. Think of others!
And if life is so worthless, as it does seem like then jump off the bridge and commit suicide. At least, it won't hurt anyone else, but yourself and your own family and friends. There are other people on this earth, who believe that life is worth a lot. Don't take it away from them.
Am i being very mean? Maybe. Maybe am just and simply telling the actual truth. A short reality check on a blog. If i am really wrong in saying all this, please leave me a comment. I needed to say it out loud, because i can't believe that there are still people being so irresponsible for their choices of not using a condom. I am not saying, it is wrong to not use a condom. What i want to say in this issue is:
If you do not use a condom, take the responsibility towards others and let them know.
This is the least you can do for others and yourself.
To protect does not only mean "use a condom", but also "be responsible for your own choices"
Protect other's life, if you do not want to protect your own.
This is the least you can do for others and yourself.
To protect does not only mean "use a condom", but also "be responsible for your own choices"
Protect other's life, if you do not want to protect your own.
